At the end of the meetings with the two doctors who have followed so far: we had to fill out the questionnaire difficult that is divided into two areas: the first deputy to the knowledge of the characteristics of spouses (type of work, housing, education, hobbies, etc..), the second time to understand this kind of availability that the spouses would give, then you will find questions like: are you willing to adopt more children? Would you be willing to adopt a child with the 'HIV? O with legal risk? Or other ethnicity? O with a disability? O with hepatitis? O with problems such as schizophrenia?
The first thing that came to mind when I was in my hands these sheets filled with questions like this I thought, "Wow, I always thought of my son as a healthy baby! I can say with complete sincerity to want for me and my husband a child with important issues like this? "I certainly legitimate, I challenge anyone to say that in his fantasies has come up with a child with physical or health problems, this is to say that read some questions puzzled me.
And now back to the importance of the strength of the couple, in fact for us to complete this questionnaire is not simple, we've been thinking a lot. We talked a lot about our little fantasy about a place that would take in our lives and in our house, that would be part of our families of origin, which should be compared with thousands of reality out of that protected of his home, expectations, potential difficulties, joys and satisfactions. All this led us to make choices in mutual agreement, giving availability for some things and not others.
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