It is conceivable that the plan adopted starts with the first meetings in which you participate, what I would define as a guideline, but for me it is not. Our project adopted and started that famous night when we talked about adoption. For us to discuss this meant digging a wound that was far from healed deepening important issues such as the differences between a child .. how to say .. "Generated" and an adopted, dealing with the admission of not being able to be defined, how to say it to their families, as would be the parents of an adopted child, our skills, our resources, our shortcomings .. we talked about trying to understand rationally and emotionally if we could take this trip.
For me this was the most important thing, perhaps the thing that made me decide later to give availability for adoption, and that is further confirmation that we, we pair, we husband and wife, we had a one desire, parenthood, natural or adopted, it was not More importantly, we wanted to become parents.
seems silly, but it is not so, sometimes you hear stories of couples in which one or the other was made to carry and decided to start the adoption procedure, or the famous phrase "a father when he becomes a father the child in her arms! The mother feels rather just tell her mom that she is pregnant. "I do not know if it is known as a phrase, but I have often felt, and gives the idea that husbands sometimes give way to a need for maternity women.
Adoption is a life project important and difficult, of course the trouble is not to go back and forth by the Juvenile Court, or attend the meetings, the effort is waiting, and waiting is a time that you must walk together, hand in hand. Nanny
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