After so many words I thought to include some information that might be helpful to those who, like me and my husband at the beginning of our journey, wanted to know what is the first step ...
My advice is to start by "communication" means talking, as I said in other posts, all that is important for you to tell the partner. We often take for granted a lot in a couple, but talk out loud what you think, and that he never said for fear of seeming cold, callous, selfish or vulnerable, then allows you to have a complete picture of the views of both.
I propose an example of our experience:
during a conversation about this choice, I asked my husband: "What is your biggest fear on the adoption?", He replied that he did not do more nor less than if we were expecting a son "natural" (my husband is a great! But I am his wife is guilty of objectivity!), I looked at him and said, "and if I could not love him as my own?" As soon as I called out to me was replaced by a sense of calm .. I felt stupid, just that I have decided to adopt a child I started to wonder about the first day of school or first step, the photos and the album to do .. But to say it has served to bring out that sense of discontent that gave me that thought, and security at that time I sent my husband has been important.
You can then search the Internet, go to any clinic in your town, or in your local health membership and ask for GIL adoptions.
do not know if all is equal to or changes from Gil to Gil, but if you call to make an appointment for a "course" during which you will be given the first details of the adoption. At the end of the course will be given a certificate of participation (or at least for us it was so) that you then attach to Form declaration of readiness to be handed to the Juvenile Court along with other documents.
L ' list of documents for the adoption National (do not know if the international are the same or there is more to be added), which was given to us by "our" Gil is as follows:
1. Birth certificates of both spouses;
2. Marriage Certificate (must be married for at least 3 years);
3. Certificate of residence for both spouses;
4. State family
5. Certificate of Service issued by the employer with a copy of last tax return;
6. consent to the adoption of the Declaration made by the parents of each of the spouses in front of the town clerk, or death certificates in the event of death.
7. Certificate of participation in the course of Gil.
Put everything in a nice envelope we went to court to hand over all ..
After a short time I have to say, there was delivered a letter from the Juvenile Court who informed us of the registration of our application and information had been sent for investigation to the following services relevant:
1. adoptions GIL;
2. Asl: Department of Forensic Medicine;
3. ; Carabinieri.
.. more ..
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